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The Ultimate Guide: How to Have Lesbian Sex

Cis, trans, non-binary. Here you’ll find it all.


Sex can be scary. Having sex with a woman for the first time can be terrifying. In fact, I dare you to find yourself one lesbian or WLW that hasn’t googled one of the below phrases:

“How to have lesbian sex”

How to have sex with a woman”

“How to go down on a girl”

“How to find the clit”

“How to finger”

Etc, etc, etc.

And even after you go through all that work of typing every sex phrase that your mind could possibly think of, you’re left only with a handful of vaguely helpful articles targeted towards one very specific type of woman.

To that I say: No more.

SHVETS production

Throughout my years of lesbian-ing, I have travelled high and low in search of The One. The text that would lead me to the promised land of the Big O, and would serve as my Sapphic Bible to help guide the baby gays on their proper path.

And I do believe I’ve found it.

Girl Sex 101: A Queer Pleasure Guide For Women and Their Lovers

I thought I knew most of what there was to know about lesbian sex before Girl Sex 101. And that’s because this book does not focus on the generic worldview of how to have lesbian sex. It focuses on sapphic sex.

It’s a book for love in all shapes and sizes.


For example, here’s a page on penetration:

Girl Sex 101

And here’s one on sex with disabilities:

Girl Sex 101

So I will go to my grave saying this, and I have littered this article with affiliate links to buy this book. Girl Sex 101 is a sex guide like none other that every queer woman should read. Whether you consider yourself lesbian, bisexual, pan, queer, or questioning, I promise that you’ll learn something new.


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